Why Do We Fall Into the Trap of Blaming Others for Our Problems?
There’s a worrisome mindset that seems to be gaining strength and momentum in society — the idea that our problems are caused by “other people,” and that if we just find someone to blame, things will get better for us. Often, this thinking is promoted by leaders who gain power by pointing fingers at vulnerable groups and stirring resentment.
It’s an easy trap to fall into. When life feels difficult or unfair, blaming someone else can feel satisfying, even empowering. Leaders who exploit this feeling may appear “strong” or “bold” because they loudly assign blame and encourage followers to do the same.
What Makes Blame-Based Leadership a False Show of Strength?
But this is a false strength. It does not heal hearts. It does not build anything good. And it will never lead us toward the Joyous Life.
For those of us who follow the path of Tenrikyo—a faith rooted in joy, compassion, and mutual care—the truth is clear: assigning blame is an improper use of the mind. It hardens the heart, isolates us from others, and clouds our ability to reflect and grow.
Tenrikyo scripture teaches us that God’s call to the Joyous Life is constant, so we should cleanse our minds of harsh or negative thoughts—including blame, hate and anger—and then with a kind and gentle heart we can come closer to God. Mikagura-uta, Song V, verse 6. Many similar references in the scripture of other faiths also advise softening your heart, and not blaming nor judging others.
What Are the “Dusts” That Accumulate When We Blame Others?
The mindsets that fuel blaming others—miserliness, greed, anger, arrogance, hatred, grudge-bearing—are what we call “dusts” in Tenrikyo. They accumulate little by little if we don’t sweep them away through reflection, service, and acts of love.
When we follow a leader or movement that constantly blames the vulnerable for what’s wrong in our lives or in society, we are not cleaning our hearts—we are letting new dust build up.
Even if such a leader appears “strong,” or promises to “set things right,” the path they lead us on will not take us closer to joy. It will only deepen division, resentment, and unhappiness.
How Can We Move Toward a Joyous Life Instead of Following Divisive Leadership?
Tenrikyo teaches us not to hate, not even those who blame others. Rather, we are encouraged to reflect on our own hearts and avoid taking on dust ourselves. Through helping others, showing compassion, and letting go of blame, we can move together toward a Joyous Life.
